It is not a safe haven.

I am willing to be that pain to make you grow if you'll continue seeing the world we live in wrongly... because the world is not an amusement park, you can never be too happy or safe. Life is a battlefield wherein pain should be felt to grow & learn.

What it is not to look back?

The pleasure of remembering had been taken from me, because there was no longer anyone to remember with. (TFIOS)

It is not about the distance

All you can do is to look and observe from afar to someone who doesn't even bother to do the same to you and ask the stars that someday somewhere he'll see you the way you view him. He has become your inspiration and motivation, praying and wishing he is really the one destined for [...]